Do cheaters who have kids really think they are good role models?

I think that in every cheating relationship the situation should be essed, I totally disagree with cheating and would never raise my kids to believe that its okay, although I have recently cheated in my situation, its because I am being held in a marriage I have tried several times to get out of and he always holds somthing over my head often the kids like an object to make me stay, or makes comments like you said until death do us part and thats how its going to be, so like much of his emotional abuse which is why I fell out of love it scared me and I stayed. So yes I agree cheating is wrong but just because you chose to do so dosent mean your kids have to be involoved my kids know nothing about it, my personal life is just that, people say divorce is wrong too, but whats better two happy stable parents or one messed up marriage?!?