Why is it so easy for others to find a girlfriend or boyfriend, but so hard for meeeee?

i'm gay and i know a few other gay people, and somehow it's so frign easy for them to find other gay people and get a boyfriend or girlfriend. i dont get it. do i have to be butch for girls do want to go out with me? i'm super nice, and really sweet, i'm not conceaded. i dont understand how people in highschool find other gays, everyone seems to do it so easily why the hell can't i? there's no gsa at my school so that doesnt work. what else can i do to meet other gay teens